You should know that anyone can be assertive and become a great communicator there are no prerequisites that you must have all you have to do is follow these simple steps I will outline for you in this online training seminar.

 

By the way if there is one thing that can absolutely destroy relationships whether professional or intimate is the way you communicate.

 

 You say the exact same words but give two totally different messages by simply changing the way you are saying it.

 

 

Choose a few examples in your life when you didn’t communicate the way you would have hoped to or when the message you wanted to say to someone was not taken the way you would have hoped for.  There is a good chance you were using one of the three communication blunders above.  (by the way don’t use examples where you communicated with people who are totally irrational by nature.)

 

 

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Step # 2

 

Categorize these few cases in your life and try to determine which 3 negative forms of communications they confirm to, i.e. indirect, aggressive or passive communication.

 

Examples:                                                                                    Aggressive, Indirect or Passive;

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